A Nyanga woman has boldly confessed to having been on a seven-year affair spree during which she slept with virtually any man who approached her — allegedly because her husband does not gratify her in bed.
Emily Bvute,
who is now pregnant and unsure of the father of the unborn baby, further
shocked the traditional court when she revealed that she does not even know the
identity of the man who has recently impregnated her.
She revealed
before Chief Mutasa’s court that she had also been denying her husband Jacob
Matsanura — his conjugal rights due to his weakness in bed, opting instead for
other men.
The woman
boldly confessed to cheating on her husband with numerous men over the past
seven years, claiming her actions were driven by her husband’s alleged
inadequacy.
The shocking
revelation came after Emily was dragged before the court by her now estranged
hubby after he discovered that she was pregnant despite them not having been
intimate for years.
“I married my
wife in 2001. Last month, I discovered that she was pregnant, yet she had been
denying me my conjugal rights. I confronted her, and she did not even deny it.
She admitted to carrying someone else’s child. What pains me is that all along,
she was denying me my conjugal rights, would not let me touch her at all,” said
a visibly emotional Matsanura.
Matsanura said
the pregnancy was the final straw in a troubled marriage marred by suspicions
and betrayal.
“In 2021, my
brother caught her with a man and told me, but I defended her. We went to
Headman Muparutsa’s court then and we were helped. However, this time, I could
not ignore it anymore. She is pregnant, yet we have not been together for years
and I gave her a divorce token. She also left with our US$2 000 and most of our
furniture,” he said.
Matsanura said
the couple, who have one 10-year-old child together, had been living apart
emotionally long before the official separation.
In a startling
admission, Emily admitted to being unfaithful while openly blaming her husband
for the years of infidelity, claiming that his failure in the bedroom left her
with no choice.
“I do not know
the man who impregnated me. I have been promiscuous for years. I did not have
one man I was committed to. I would sleep with anyone who approached me. My
husband is weak in bed. We even went to prophets for help, but nothing worked.
By 2018, I would not allow him to touch me at all because he is so weak in bed.
I even went to my brother and told him I wanted to leave and he told me to get
the divorce token first,” she revealed.
When asked
about protection during her multiple encounters, Emily said: “Sometimes I used
condoms, but they would break. My husband actually knew I was sleeping with
other men because he could not satisfy me. It has been seven years since we
last had sex as a couple, but I was with other men regularly. He is just angry
because I got pregnant.”
Her brother,
Deuteronomy Bvute, corroborated parts of her confession, telling the court that
his sister had also informed him that she was sleeping with four different men.
“I now suspect
that she had turned to prostitution and I challenge her to reveal the truth to
the court today. She refuses to disclose the unborn baby’s father to us,
instead threatening suicide, probably to avoid revealing the father of the
unborn child,” he said.
Matsanura’s
brother, Titus told the court that he had caught Emily redhanded with one of
her alleged lovers in 2021.
“I found a man
in her matrimonial home. He claimed he was buying bananas from her but she does
not sell anything from home. She is a vendor, but she does her vending at the
market, not in her bedroom.
“When I
confronted her she did not deny it. After that, she and my brother actually
sued me through the village head, claiming I had lied. I was fined for
defamation, but now my brother has discovered she is pregnant, although they
have not been together for years,” he said.
Titus claimed
that the man he caught her with was a married Nyanga-based
Agritex
officer. However, Emily denied the accusation, prompting suspicions that she
may be protecting the man to avoid exposing him.
Chief Mutasa
expressed deep concern over Emily’s conduct, describing her as disgraceful and
lacking moral restraint.
“You stand
before this court unashamed of your behaviour. The life we lead does not
warrant such behaviour. What kind of woman proudly confesses to sleeping with
just about anyone and then adds that sometimes condoms would break? This is
utterly deplorable,” said Chief Mutasa.
The seven-year
affair spree with multiple men has led to the breakdown of the marriage and a
court ruling in favour of the husband ordering the wife to pay compensation for
her infidelity.
The chief also
ordered that DNA tests be conducted once the child is born to determine whether
the Agritex officer is the father.
“This case
cannot end here without proper paternity being established. Once the baby is
born, we must uncover the truth,” he said.
As punishment
for her infidelity and bringing shame to her marriage, Emily was ordered to pay
five herd of cattle to her husband each valued at US$350.
“This means
that if you choose to pay in cash, you will be required to give him US$1 750,”
he ruled. Manica Post
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