OLINDA Nkomo, nee Chapel, has decided to be in an open
relationship after she recently found out that her youthful husband musician,
Tytan Nkomo cheated on her with her best friend.
The 35-year-old Olinda, who seems to be unlucky in love
after being cheated on by another musician, Stunner, revealed in a live social
media video that 29-year-old Tytan cheated on her last year with her friend
identified as Fungai.
After discovering her husband’s infidelity, Olinda
interestingly said she would not be dumping Tytan as she dreads looking for
another partner. As such, she has decided that the two be in an open
relationship.
“From today (Wednesday), Tytan and Olinda are in an open
relationship. He’s allowed to go out and chase skirts wherever. I’m giving him
a hall pass and don’t want you people to be surprised if you happen to bump
into him with other women – he has a pass,” said Olinda.
“At the end of it all, tonight I want to have s** with my
husband. I don’t care what people are saying, but I can’t be jumping around
from relationship to relationship.”
With a very young daughter with Tytan, Olinda said she has
come to accept that her husband, like any other man, is bound to cheat. She,
however, advised Tytan to be clever in his cheating in future.
“You should cheat on me, but don’t get caught. Don’t leave
your phone in the open so that people like me can go through it and see
everything you’re doing,” said Olinda.
From the over 1 000 comments she received during her live
video, some suggested that the six-year age gap between Olinda and Tytan was
causing the young stud to stray. However, Olinda revealed that it was not true
as her friend Fungai was approaching 40.
“The generational gap argument that some of you are trying
use as the cause of Tytan going astray isn’t relevant. Fungai is three years
older than I am – she is almost in her 40s,” said Olinda.
In all this, Olinda said she was happy that Tytan was
inundated with women on his social media inboxes showing that she had chosen
her man well.
Some suggested that Olinda keeps her private life private
but she refused saying her life was out in the open.
“When Tytan and I started dating, you (social media
followers) were there. When he paid the bride price, you were there, when we
got married, you were there. Even throughout the pregnancy and birth of our
daughter you were there. Now that there are problems I should hide them? No!”
said Olinda.
Two years ago, upon finding out that her ex-boyfriend
rapper Stunner (who is ironically Tytan’s friend) was cheating on her, she went
on Facebook live, crying her eyeballs out.
However, this time she was calm and content. This calmness, according to Olinda, was because she could
not afford to be hurt anymore.
“I can’t be hurt anymore. I want marriages to be renewable
like television licences. I think there should be an option that after a year,
you can renew and state if you want to be in the marriage or not.
“I want to advocate for that from now on.” Chronicle
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