MOST relationships are uplifted by regular sexual
intercourse and for most men, sex is a good thing and physiologically
beneficial. It calms them, keeps them connected to their partners.
Well, in the “this might be the first time in the history
of the country” vein, a seemingly exhausted Bulawayo man dumped his lover
because he could no longer keep up with her “excessive and unrelenting” demand
for sex.
Besides being aggressive and autocratic with an “insatiable
appetite for sex”, Stanford Dambwara from Bulawayo’s Mzilikazi suburb sought
separation from his lover Senzeni Mayisa, a till operator at a city shop also
alleging that she once attempted to commit suicide by stabbing herself with a
kitchen knife after he refused to please her between the sheets.
In a bid to stop Mayisa from coming to his house and force
him to make love to her, Dambwara, a lecturer at a city college approached the
court last week and sought a restraining order against his estranged lover.
“I had an affair with Senzeni Mayisa in November 2019. As
time went by, the relationship was no longer good for me and I asked that we
stop. She refused and started threatening and harassing me. Her behaviour is
very bad and the following is what she has been doing leading me to apply for a
protection order:
“She would threaten to come to my place to cause havoc. She
once came and made noise with other tenants while accusing me of helping one of
them to operate a shebeen. That very night she attempted to rape me and tore my
pair of trousers after I refused to undress.
“After she failed to rape me, she took a knife and
attempted suicide. I grabbed the knife and threw it outside. I can’t stay with
someone who is forcing me to make love to her when I’m not interested. She is
also threatening to come to my workplace to harass me in front of the
students,” complained Dambwara.
He said on the day in question and as punishment for
refusing to have sex with her, Mayisa demanded back all the gifts she bought
for him and the money she gave him during the subsistence of their
relationship.
Mayisa, while denying Dambwara’s allegations, told the
court that they were still in love and would be at his house every Sunday to
supposedly bless each other with sex.
“What he said is not true. I am still in a relationship
with him and I go to his house every Sunday. Although we are no longer in good
books, he hasn’t told me that he no longer loves me,” responded Mayisa.
For the purpose of maintaining peace between the two
estranged parties the presiding magistrate Adelaide Mbeure ordered Mayisa to
stay away from Dambwara’s house and workplace as well as not to verbally harass
or threaten him in any way. B Metro
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