SEX is arguably one of the most intimate expressions of love for married couples. So, what happens when one partner constantly says no to sex?
For men it can cause a blow to their ego and for that
reason a man from Gokwe approached a traditional court lamenting how his wife
was using sex as a bargaining chip, by barring him from having sexual intercourse
with her until he paid the balance on the bride price.
It is reported that Eunice Chitangu from Marumisa village
under Chief Nemangwe decided to punish her husband Nesbert Chitondo by denying
him sex as punishment for allegedly demanding sex all the time even when she
was not in the mood.
It was revealed to B-Metro that in January this year,
Chitangu who felt her husband should not continue enjoying her affection
without giving her parents their dues as an appreciation for raising a woman
who bore him four children solemnly told him the comfort, he had enjoyed was
equivalent to the lobola he had so far paid.
Irked by his wife’s “sufficient reason” to deny him his
conjugal rights, Chitondo then approached Chief Nemangwe’s traditional court
complaining that his wife was holding him at ransom by allegedly denying him
sex on grounds that he had not yet finished paying lobola for her.
According to a source who claimed to have intimate details
of the incident, Chitondo was now accusing his wife of having a boyfriend
arguing that same boyfriend must be the one who has been issuing instructions
to his wife so that he doesn’t get his conjugal rights.
“In his case which is yet to be heard before Chief
Nemangwe, Chitondo is complaining about his wife saying since January this
year, he has not had sex with her because every time he tries to stimulate her
sexual desires, she would refuse saying he should pay the outstanding lobola.
“Despite the fact he wanted the chief to restore the
conjugal rights, Chitondo was complaining that he was also fed up of living
with a stingy and disrespectful wife,” the source said.
The source further said Chitondo tried his best to make his
wife happy and he even preached to her on the dangers of leaving him sexually
starved, but to no avail.
B-Metro also gathered that central to the dispute is the
fact that Chitondo was constantly demanding sex to an extent that he would even
set his alarm clock an extra 30-40 minutes early so that he could fit in some
of his lovemaking sessions with his seemingly restive wife.
Contacted for comment Chief Nemangwe could neither confirm
nor deny the incident.
“I am not at liberty to comment on that case now because I
have a lot of cases before me, which accumulated after we suspended hearings in
March as part of Government’s efforts to reduce the spread of the deadly
Covid-19. I will however, only be able to do so after I have presided over it,”
said Chief Nemangwe. B Metro
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